Sex

4 inclusive sex toys that are hot AF for everyone

By Maya Khamala

From magic wand vibes with multiple modes and intensities, to tiny ’n trusty bullet vibes, it’s hardly news that sex toys are all the rage—worldwide. Really, the global sexual wellness market is a veritable explosion these days. That's why it's exciting to see that the sex toy industry is really starting to clue in to the need for inclusive sex toys.

The fact is, most sex toys don't cater to all bodies and experiences—yet. A lot of sex toy marketing somewhat ignores the experiences of trans and non-binary toy-lovers. Not to mention, the majority of sex toys aren’t designed with disabled users in mind.

Fortunately, sex toy culture is in flux, and for the better. The toys coming now out are ever more tapped into the needs of its increasingly diverse client-base.

If you’re on the market for inclusive sex toys, do consider the 4 following golden contenders!

1. Demi Wand 

Our mission was to create a pleasure product that is truly accessible, that makes more people want to use sex toys, and that helps more people than ever before achieve climax—a toy that works for all bodies and body types

The result? Our best-selling Demi Wand (or should we say demigod/ess?!). This cutting edge wand vibrator, intended specifically for external use, is innovatively designed with all body types in mind. This strong vibin’ yet silent toy is whisper-quiet so you can remain discreet. It's also super cute and compact in its charming li’l charging case, and portable to boot (fits in your bag!).

2.  Bellesa Luxe Dildos 

Bellesa Luxe Dildos come with insertable lengths of 5 inches, 6 inches, and 7 inches, and are fantastic for dildo lovers of all spots and stripes—from beginners, to those with conditions that cause painful sex and therefore require smaller insertable toys (like those with endometriosis), to straight-up size queens and everyone in between! 

Bellesa Luxe dildos works perfectly in all harness accessories, as a suction dildo secured to the side of your tub, or, really any way you want it, baby. Designed specifically for g-spot or p-spot stimulation, this truly versatile dildo is a serious must-have.

3. Bellesa Anal Training Kit

Simple to use and easy to clean, the Bellesa Anal Training Kit is perfect for anyone exploring the wild world of anal play. While this kit was initially created as an intro for anyone interested in, um, entering the realm of anal pleasure for the first time (whether in the form of foreplay, sex, masturbation, etc.), many users (of all genders) who are more experienced in the anal arts also happen to count this kit among their all-time fave anal toys. A wizened observers might chalk this up its thoughtful design, ease of use, and the three graduating sizes that make this anal training kit accessible to all bodies—and moods. 

Each of the three sleek probes offers streamlined pleasure, slipping comfortably inside. This kit represents the peak in pleasure and preparation alike for all anal training initiates. Given the three butt plug sizes to choose from, users are in complete control of their experience—be they beginners, enthusiasts...or anywhere in between.

4. Soft Touch Bullet 

The Soft Touch Bullet by Bellesa was the only logical answer to a veritable ocean of requests: as the #1 most highly sought after toy by members of our Bellesa Instagram community, we knew we had to deliver. Offering a similar type of versatility to many wand vibes—while also being insertable—the Bullet by Bellesa is made with our market-leading Soft Touch ™ vibration technology (a body safe liquid silicone dream). In other words, this realistic-feeling toy is soft and natural to the touch. The Bullet was also engineered to be small enough to fit in your pocket. 

Vibration Modes: 7. Girth: 2 inches. Length: 3 inches. Once you try it, you won’t go back. A whole new world opens before you—we’re talking orgasms like you’ve never experienced them. Bonus: next to other rechargeable bullets, we took extra care to ensure this one was extra affordable and therefore accessible.

Hot bonus tips: 

Once you’ve got your arsenal of inclusive toys at the ready, it never hurts to also equip yourself with some top tier lube and toy cleanser. In fact, it can only work in your favor! After all, friction has no place in your pleasure palace, and neither does a badly sanitized toy. 

Water-based lube

There are oh-so-many wonderful reasons to integrate lube into your sex or masturbation sesh. But how to choose the right one? While there is a time and a place for silicone and oil-based lubes, most of the time you’re gonna wanna go with a quality water-based product. Bellesa’s bestselling Water-Based Lubricant is fragrance-free, naturally hydrating, 100% natural, hypoallergenic, and pH balanced. Not only is it super gentle on your delicate bits, but its texture is unbeatable, and it’s made to last!

Toy cleanser 

Most of us understand the importance of keeping our toys clean to prevent the spread of harmful bacteria, as well as the need to base our cleaning protocols on the material the toy is made of. But let’s face it: it’s not always clear what one should use to clean one’s toys while on the go, in a rush, or when lacking the usual ingredients. Bellesa's toy cleanser is a hyper convenient, top of the line spray cleaner. You apply it directly to toys, mix with water, and rinse it off. Voila. This 100% body safe cleaner is designed to sanitize, deodorize, and disinfect with abandon.

Here’s to safe, fun, and inclusive pleasure for all! <3

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