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How to keep it hot when you''ve been together forever

Here we offer you 10 tried and true ways to keep that proverbial spark alive, no matter how long you''ve been joined at the hip.

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Masturbation for anxiety relief: how orgasms calm your nervous system

When you''re deep in the trenches, sex might be the last thing on your mind-but it could be exactly what your nervous system is craving. Discover how masturbation can help your nervous system reset.

Relationships

How to talk about sexual compatibility without killing the mood

Here we offer you 8 titillating tips for initiating the sex compatibility discussion with artfulness, tenderness, and tact.

Relationships

Erotic mindfulness: how to be fully present during sex

Let’s be real - it’s hard enough to have a simple conversation some days. Being fully present during sex takes real effort. This is how to do it.

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Sex clubs demystified: where curiosity meets consent

A sex club is a space where adults can safely and consensually explore their sexuality beyond the vanilla norms. They’re designed to accommodate a huge variety of desires and social dynamics, so whether you’re a newbie or a sex party pro—rest assured, there’s a place just for you.

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Bellesa 101: Strapless

Bellesa’s strap-on game has gone Strapless.

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When can I ride again? Reclaiming your sex life after baby

Pregnancy is a full-body metamorphosis that transforms every part of you. Before jumping back into sex, it''s key to understand why a post-birth pause matters.

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Bellesa 101: Dirty Talk

If you’re looking to spice up your dirty talk game, listen up!

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Why sex might hurt (and what you can do about it)

Here we offer you 10 common causes of painful sex, and suggestions for troubleshooting each case.

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So you're celibate now: 8 super-valid reasons to hit pause on sex

Celibacy isn’t reserved for monks, nuns, or the heartbreakingly single. It can be a conscious, juicy choice—and yes, it can even be sexy. Here we offer you 8 good reasons to go for it.

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Sexual Fantasies 101

There are a few fantasies that show up again and again across genders, cultures, and sexual orientations - let’s break down a few of these greatest hits, shall we

Guides

Touch me like you mean it: a smart & sexy guide to erotic massage

If the prospect of gifting your SO with an erotic massage sounds exciting, titillating, a little luxurious, a lot naughty—and possibly intimidating, you''ve come to the right place.

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Bellesa 101: Edging

Here’s everything you need to know about edging!

Relationships

Morning Sex 101: rise and grind, baby

This is Morning Sex 101, your beginner’s guide to getting it on before your teeth are brushed.

Health

Sexercise is real: 9 ways you''re getting fit while you get it on

Sex is one of the most enjoyable, intimate, and satisfying activities you can do with a partner (or without) and it happens to be a legit form of exercise.

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Vibrators 101: your guide to buzzworthy pleasure

The world of vibrators is vast and glorious. Here’s your cheat sheet to finding your perfect match.

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Bellesa 101: Multiple Os

Here are some tips and tricks on having multiple orgasms in one session.

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Makeup Sex 101: pros, cons, and when to dive in (or bow out)

What’s really going on when we hit the sheets post-squabble? And how do you know if it’s healing…versus just hiding something?

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Bellesa 101: Taking Nudes

Arch your back and pick your pose - this is your 101 on how to take nudes.

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Spring cleaning: how to properly clean and store your sex toys

Here''s our guide on how to do your toys justice by keeping ''em squeaky clean!

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How to masturbate: a rough ''n dirty guide to self-pleasure

Whether you''re a many-seasoned maven of masturbation, or a newbie explorer looking for your next hot fix (or your first!), you might just learn something here.

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