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Relationships

Morning Sex 101: rise and grind, baby

By Maya Khamala

Let’s face it—when your alarm goes off in the morning, your first instinct probably isn’t to pounce on your partner. Maybe it’s to scroll aimlessly, snooze for “just five more minutes,” or trudge to the kitchen for that sweet caffeine drip. But what if there was a much better way to start your day—one that’s hot, healthy, and actually worth waking up for?

This is Morning Sex 101, your beginner’s guide to getting it on before your teeth are brushed. Yup, you heard right.

The case for the AM shag

Why bother with morning sex? Isn't nighttime the default sexy hour? Assuming you can keep your eyes open, that is...

While there's something undeniably romantic about candlelight and a glass of wine, think of morning sex as the underrated brunch of the bedroom: indulgent, feel-good, and perfect for people who like things a little messy but very satisfying indeed.

Here’s the lowdown on why you might want to shift some of your sexytime to sunrise:

1. Your hormones are basically begging for it

In the early hours, your testosterone levels (yes, for all genders) are naturally at their highest. Translation? Libido gets a major boost. Your body is already in the mood—it’s just waiting for you to catch up.

Plus, you’re well-rested (ideally), which means you’re more likely to have the energy and enthusiasm to enjoy yourself. And let’s be real: there’s something extra primal and delicious about a just-woke-up, bedhead kind of vibe. No pretenses, no pre-game—just you, your lover, and some serious morning magic.

2. It’s the sexiest alarm clock

If you hate mornings, morning sex can make waking up a whole lot more appealing. Knowing there’s a naked body next to you and a potential orgasm (or two) in your immediate future might just have you raring to go.

Also, if you’re one of those people who feels grumpy or groggy first thing, sex can actually snap you right out of it. A little moaning and groaning goes a long way—especially when it's not about traffic or your inbox.

3. It’s nature’s espresso shot

Orgasms trigger the release of feel-good hormones like dopamine and oxytocin, and morning sex in particular can give you a happiness high that carries you through your entire day. Benefits include: stress relief, immune boost, improved mood, and that post-coital glow that pairs perfectly with your morning cup o' joe.

The underlying question here is: why settle for a latte when you can start your day with a literal zinger?

4. Sex with the lights on = hot AF, honest, and intimate

Morning sex basically means doing it with the lights on—whether that’s the soft translucence of a rainy day, or full-on sunlight streaming through your blinds. Seeing each other clearly—puffy eyes, tousled hair, morning wood and all—can be incredibly intimate. There's no hiding in the shadows, no mood lighting to disguise what’s real.

That kind of visibility fosters trust, vulnerability, and closeness. And let’s not forget the visuals—watching your partner’s body move, clear as day? Underrated. Highly recommended. Better than your smartphone screen.

But what about morning breath?

Ah yes, the breathy elephant in the room. Morning sex is raw and real, and that includes not-so-fresh breath and pillow creases on your face. But newsflash: nobody's expecting minty-fresh perfection at 7am (and if they are, you might need a new bedmate).

That said, if morning breath kills the vibe for you or your partner, there are options:

- Keep mints and/or water by the bed.

- Hit the bathroom for a 30-second rinse ‘n’ spit (and pee!).

- Go for positions that keep your mouths at a safe 'n sexy distance, like speed bump, 69ing, or even variations of missionary.

The goal is connection, not perfection. If you're both down to get busy, morning funk isn't gonna stop the fun.

Morning sex hacks: how to do it right (even half-asleep)

If you’re sold on the idea but still unsure how to make it work before coffee, fear not. Here’s your cheat sheet to becoming a morning sex pro:

1. Set the scene the night before

A little prep can go a long way. After all, totally spontaneous sex is a myth. Think: sleeping naked (or semi-naked), and sneakily setting your alarm 15-30 minutes early if you're pressed for time. Sexy doesn’t have to be all fancy, with lingerie and candles—simple accessibility goes a long way.

2. Keep it simple (and lazy)

Morning sex isn’t about acrobatics or five-course orgasms (unless that’s your thing). It’s about rolling over, grabbing what you want, and getting what you need—slow, sleepy, and steamy. Think lazy, tangled limbs and whispered "mmm yes right there's" rather than full-on performance mode. You don't even need to break a sweat (unless you want to).

3. Make it a habit

Here’s a wild idea: what if morning sex wasn’t just a treat, but a routine? Even once a week can create a shared rhythm between you and your partner—something intimate, connective, and oh-so-pleasurable before the other grind takes precedence. Routines like this can make your whole relationship feel more alive. Who doesn’t want to start the day feeling desired?

What if you're not a morning person, full stop?

Totally fair. Not everyone wants to wake up and immediately be touched. And sometimes your brain is still rebooting and your body’s like, “Can we not?”

Here’s what to keep in mind:

- Consent is still sexy in the early AM. Make it a rule to check in with sleepy whispers: “Wanna play before we get up?” is a mood in itself.

- Explore your timing. Morning sex doesn’t have to mean right when you wake up. It could be post-shower (or in the shower), post-toast, or right before you leave for work (AKA the "we-have-10-minutes" special).

- Don't force it. Morning sex should be fun, never a chore. If you're just not into it, save the sexcapades for later. Your bed, your rules.

Between the natural hormone boost, the stress-busting endorphins, and the undeniable sex appeal of a not being awake enough to cockblock yourself with overthinking, morning sex might just be what the good goddess ordered.

So go ahead—let real, raw pleasure be the first thing on your to-do list. Chances are the rest of your list will go a lot smoother post lovin'. <3

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