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Masturbation for anxiety relief: how orgasms calm your nervous system

When you're deep in the trenches, sex might be the last thing on your mind-but it could be exactly what your nervous system is craving. Discover how masturbation can help your nervous system reset.

Guides

Vanilla Sex 101: A Quick and Easy Guide to Spicing Up Your Sex Life

Simply talking through your desires together can be enough to really heat things up. Getting vulnerable and open in your communication can be intimidating and also super rewarding, both in and out of the bedroom.

Culture

The Best of Twitter's Reaction to the Demi Wand

Here are the Bellesa Team’s fave Tweets of the Demi Drop.

Guides

The Chemotherapy Guide to Sex

Chemo can cause fatigue, nausea, and changes to your hormone levels, which can reduce your libido and affect your desire for intimacy. Be kind to yourself, go slow, and don’t force anything. You’ll get there when you’re ready.

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Wand Vibes 101

While there is zero hierarchy when it comes to sex toys, there’s no denying that wand vibes are in a league all their own.

Culture

Demi Lovato launches their own sex toy in partnership with sex tech powerhouse, Bellesa

Demi Lovato joins forces with Bellesa Boutique to launch the Demi Wand, advocating for sexual wellness and pleasure for people of all genders.

Sex

Sex dreams: what are they, and can you learn to control them?

Dream meanings are challenging to pin down, but there are a few key themes that show up pretty consistently in sex dreams, and a few basic theories as to what they might mean.

Relationships

Cuddling positions 101: 13 ways to get up close and personal

In today’s crazy busy world, it’s all-too-easy to give intimacy and relaxation the short end of the stick. Cuddling can help with all that.

Health

The pre chemo guide to sex

Know this: your sex life won’t necessarily be affected by your treatments.

Guides

6 ways to make your partner wet

This one’s for partners with vaginas.

Culture

Astrological Update: Scorpio Season 2021

It’s Scorpio season, witches.

Culture

Best halloween costume based on your favorite sex toy

Come get y’all’s screams!

Culture

Love and lust with a Scorpio

If you’re bedding one, and/or in a relationship with one, why not take advantage of any chance to understand more deeply what really turns them on; how to enchant them; and the best way to blow their minds?

Guides

Toys for penises 101

I dare say: men’s sex toys deserve some attention and fanfare too!

Guides

Costumes Role Play 101: Guide to Halloween Roleplay

Halloween is right around the corner! Make the most of your spooky season costume this year by rolling it into your roleplay fantasies.

Guides

The Ultimate Guide to Sex Positions: Doggy Style

This can be a very mutually enjoyable position for people of any gender, where everyone can get involved with gusto.

Guides

5 creative ways to celebrate a sexy Halloween in 2021

Here’s the good news: no matter what your situation, life is still fundamentally full of possibility, and no matter what kind of mood you’re in this October, there are ample ways to celebrate!

Guides

Couples toys 101

Sex toys aren't just fun when playing alone...

Sex

The orgasm hierarchy: what’s the best type of orgasm?

Here’s the thing: placing vaginal orgasms above clitoral orgasms (as though there is any need to create false dichotomies) is not only an injustice to pleasure-seekers everywhere—it also happens to be highly misinformed.

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